That. I was teaching Sunday school as a teenager, and seriously started doubting my faith when, in my early thirties, I finally read the Catechism. I still had a (bi-denominational) religious wedding; what gave me the final push were a Pastor and a Priest both treating me like a pariah because I wanted a bi-denominational baptism ceremony.

I'm now the happy atheist mother of three atheist, unbaptized kids.

PS I also didn't want kids at all from puberty, except when I got to know my husband I really, really wanted some kids to have him as father.(/tmi)

People DO change. You stop changing when you're dead.