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house_wilson_ghc Hello I am new to this community. I've been a lurker for awhile but finally decided to join and contribute! If for some reason I'm violating any rules or codes or something feel free to move this...
A little bit about me before I continue I am a huge House/Wilson shipper and I really didn't get into House until mid-way through the 3rd season but I've been watching ever since! I also write a lot of fan fiction but have only just recently gathered up the courage to actually post a fic...(I haven't posted it yet because I am still waiting on a suitable beta...:/ and have had no such luck...)
Anyways, I know this may not seem very interesting or ya'll won't care but I figured I'd share anyways just for kicks. I also realize almost everyone probably knows a 'House' or is even friends with their very own version of House but I didn't really realize until tonight's episode just how similar my best friend and I's relationship is to House and Wilson's...
A little bit about me before I continue I am a huge House/Wilson shipper and I really didn't get into House until mid-way through the 3rd season but I've been watching ever since! I also write a lot of fan fiction but have only just recently gathered up the courage to actually post a fic...(I haven't posted it yet because I am still waiting on a suitable beta...:/ and have had no such luck...)
Anyways, I know this may not seem very interesting or ya'll won't care but I figured I'd share anyways just for kicks. I also realize almost everyone probably knows a 'House' or is even friends with their very own version of House but I didn't really realize until tonight's episode just how similar my best friend and I's relationship is to House and Wilson's...
Basically, the similarities are a bit creepy...(btw, I'm Wilson and my best friend, who is also my roomie is House...)
A little background, I am a 21 year old female and my best friend is a 20 year old male. We've known each other since our Freshman year of high school and have had our ups and downs, our fair share of nasty fights where we stopped talking for months or even a year at one point, but the thing is is that we always managed to find our way back to each other.
Okay, so anyways, my best friend he is a bit of a loner. I am like his only 'good' friend and a lot of other people see him as a miserable, lonely person, he is a bit of an outcast bastard in his own right and I've always seen past that. I've always seen him for who he is and I am the only person to really 'connect' with him. He is a bit anti-social at times, stubborn, self-centered, sarcastic and generally is not very good at communicating with people (and when he does he usually gets himself into deep sh*t by saying something highly offensive and unfunny or something that only we would find funny which results in screwing everything up and causing that person to take on a strong disliking towards him, sort of like House sometimes, and I am usually left trying to pick up the pieces and make excuses for him...) He doesn't care what other people think of him and is very reluctant to show his emotions and has a hard time trusting people. He also lacks sympathy and likes to pick on others who show any signs of weakness (i.e. showing emotion therefore proving that they are human...) like, he really can be absolutely unbearable at times yet I am his only and best friend and he is just one of mine (I have more than one best friend but our bond is 'unique') he really can be the biggest, most selfish, unsympathetic, cocky jerk ever to grace the earth yet I still find myself around him 24/7, right by his side and in some sick way I wouldn't want it any other way...
Now myself, so many of my other friends always question me, "Why are you friends with him? He's weird, creepy, a jerk, he doesn't appreciate/respect you..." etc, etc...the list goes on and on but we just click. No one really understands this special bond and connection we have except for us and even we have trouble understanding it, at times. Now, I am similar to Wilson in a sense that pretty much even though everyone else hates House and can not stand him (much like my friend) he just doesn't care, he always stands by House and will pretty much do (and has) done anything and everything he can to help House and prove his loyalty to him. I am the same way, I am constantly doing things for my friend and putting my neck on the line to protect him from the world around him and am not always appreciated for it, yet I don't give up on him like many other people have. I have sacrificed and still do sacrifice a lot to keep this friendship going and rarely get a thank you and am sometimes taken advantage of, but the thing is is that we click, we get each other just like House and Wilson do. It's just one of those things you think about every once in awhile but really don't question too much, it was just meant to be.
Also, House isn't always so open to Wilson about how he feels about him and how much he appreciates him, considering he's his only friend and the only person who can willingly tolerate him (much like my friend) but yet he still cares about him (he just doesn't show/admit it). My friend is like that too, I know he cares about me because in rare instances he will tell me or show me and it's special because I know just how hard it is for him to open up and that when he does it means something (and also at the same time not to expect anything that meaningful to come out of his mouth for awhile...which makes the moment all that more special...kind of like House saying "I love you," to Wilson in 97 seconds...) but we both care about each other and show it in our own weird and wacky ways. :p
My friend and I always joke about how twisted, unhealthy (at times), abnormal and weird our relationship is and how there is 'none other in the world like it,' and it's true...but it occured to me during tonight's episode just how similar some of our traits are to these characters (not like DEAD on but similar...) like it all started while I was watching the episode with my friend (btw he's not a House watching regular, I've only just recently gotten him into it and...go figure, he likes it! Because he can relate to House and he thinks House is one badass mofo...) so anyways, everytime House would do/say something jerky my friend would go..."Sounds/looks like something I would do!" and I'd reply with an automatic "Yep...definately...he's you basically...or you're him..." and we had a good laugh...but then it really got me thinking...O_o
I don't know...I just thought it was interesting...ya'll might think this is no big deal, and that's fine...just thought I'd share my own personal experience with my own "House".
Like you all are probably thinking 'Oh, what a great friend you have!' *sarcasm* but you know what? Wilson describes his friendship with House as 'stupid and screwed up' and I can say the same but it's one thing I got going for me, and it works. We are both happy, content and we enjoy each other's company, we make each other laugh, and we understand each other on a level that no one else ever will...it's kind of romantic in a strange and twisted way...(I know...I'm weird @_@)
The only differences are we are both of the opposite sex, we have dated each other (in high school), he's not a doctor and not addicted to vicodin or any other drugs. I am not a doctor, jewish or a serial dater, etc...but still...there were definately OTHER similar character traits that we share with these characters...
It makes it a little more fun to watch now because I can totally see me and my friend in House and Wilson...
(hehehe that can definately be taken the wrong way...*dirty thoughts* >:p)
Thoughts? Comments? Questions?
Anyways, yep, I guess that's all. I'm done.
A little background, I am a 21 year old female and my best friend is a 20 year old male. We've known each other since our Freshman year of high school and have had our ups and downs, our fair share of nasty fights where we stopped talking for months or even a year at one point, but the thing is is that we always managed to find our way back to each other.
Okay, so anyways, my best friend he is a bit of a loner. I am like his only 'good' friend and a lot of other people see him as a miserable, lonely person, he is a bit of an outcast bastard in his own right and I've always seen past that. I've always seen him for who he is and I am the only person to really 'connect' with him. He is a bit anti-social at times, stubborn, self-centered, sarcastic and generally is not very good at communicating with people (and when he does he usually gets himself into deep sh*t by saying something highly offensive and unfunny or something that only we would find funny which results in screwing everything up and causing that person to take on a strong disliking towards him, sort of like House sometimes, and I am usually left trying to pick up the pieces and make excuses for him...) He doesn't care what other people think of him and is very reluctant to show his emotions and has a hard time trusting people. He also lacks sympathy and likes to pick on others who show any signs of weakness (i.e. showing emotion therefore proving that they are human...) like, he really can be absolutely unbearable at times yet I am his only and best friend and he is just one of mine (I have more than one best friend but our bond is 'unique') he really can be the biggest, most selfish, unsympathetic, cocky jerk ever to grace the earth yet I still find myself around him 24/7, right by his side and in some sick way I wouldn't want it any other way...
Now myself, so many of my other friends always question me, "Why are you friends with him? He's weird, creepy, a jerk, he doesn't appreciate/respect you..." etc, etc...the list goes on and on but we just click. No one really understands this special bond and connection we have except for us and even we have trouble understanding it, at times. Now, I am similar to Wilson in a sense that pretty much even though everyone else hates House and can not stand him (much like my friend) he just doesn't care, he always stands by House and will pretty much do (and has) done anything and everything he can to help House and prove his loyalty to him. I am the same way, I am constantly doing things for my friend and putting my neck on the line to protect him from the world around him and am not always appreciated for it, yet I don't give up on him like many other people have. I have sacrificed and still do sacrifice a lot to keep this friendship going and rarely get a thank you and am sometimes taken advantage of, but the thing is is that we click, we get each other just like House and Wilson do. It's just one of those things you think about every once in awhile but really don't question too much, it was just meant to be.
Also, House isn't always so open to Wilson about how he feels about him and how much he appreciates him, considering he's his only friend and the only person who can willingly tolerate him (much like my friend) but yet he still cares about him (he just doesn't show/admit it). My friend is like that too, I know he cares about me because in rare instances he will tell me or show me and it's special because I know just how hard it is for him to open up and that when he does it means something (and also at the same time not to expect anything that meaningful to come out of his mouth for awhile...which makes the moment all that more special...kind of like House saying "I love you," to Wilson in 97 seconds...) but we both care about each other and show it in our own weird and wacky ways. :p
My friend and I always joke about how twisted, unhealthy (at times), abnormal and weird our relationship is and how there is 'none other in the world like it,' and it's true...but it occured to me during tonight's episode just how similar some of our traits are to these characters (not like DEAD on but similar...) like it all started while I was watching the episode with my friend (btw he's not a House watching regular, I've only just recently gotten him into it and...go figure, he likes it! Because he can relate to House and he thinks House is one badass mofo...) so anyways, everytime House would do/say something jerky my friend would go..."Sounds/looks like something I would do!" and I'd reply with an automatic "Yep...definately...he's you basically...or you're him..." and we had a good laugh...but then it really got me thinking...O_o
I don't know...I just thought it was interesting...ya'll might think this is no big deal, and that's fine...just thought I'd share my own personal experience with my own "House".
Like you all are probably thinking 'Oh, what a great friend you have!' *sarcasm* but you know what? Wilson describes his friendship with House as 'stupid and screwed up' and I can say the same but it's one thing I got going for me, and it works. We are both happy, content and we enjoy each other's company, we make each other laugh, and we understand each other on a level that no one else ever will...it's kind of romantic in a strange and twisted way...(I know...I'm weird @_@)
The only differences are we are both of the opposite sex, we have dated each other (in high school), he's not a doctor and not addicted to vicodin or any other drugs. I am not a doctor, jewish or a serial dater, etc...but still...there were definately OTHER similar character traits that we share with these characters...
It makes it a little more fun to watch now because I can totally see me and my friend in House and Wilson...
(hehehe that can definately be taken the wrong way...*dirty thoughts* >:p) Thoughts? Comments? Questions?
Anyways, yep, I guess that's all. I'm done.
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